Sean Swaby reflects on how ghosting has changed him. ___ Ghosting will make you a better person? I admit it, I have been a ghost. I’m not proud of walking away and it’s not my intent to be a flake. Most of the relationships I have ghosted, I felt some regret about the emotions that … More How Ghosting Has Made Me A Better Man
For the article on “Losing love and finding it again, all with the same person,” click on the photo above. I write articles about wellness, leadership, parenting and personal growth. My hope is to deliver the best content I can to inspire, to inform and to entertain. Sign up for my blog if you want to … More When You are Unprepared for Love, That is When Love Will Do it’s Best Work
In believing that you are lovable… you become “Love-Able.” ___ Becoming too good at love can be dangerous. Love is meant to be messy because you are wonderfully broken, completely incomplete. Don’t get me wrong, you can know love and understand it. You can become a better lover and better at loving yourself. But the … More Why is Having Love All Figured Out a Dangerous Thing?
How do you rekindle the love in your relationship? ___ I have been married for nearly 20 years and I have fallen into and out of love so many times that I have lost count. Love has little to do with falling, otherwise being a toddler (or 90) would be a love-in. Love is a … More Losing Love and Finding it Again, All With the Same Person
For the article on being brave enough to love yourself, click on the photo above. I write articles about wellness, leadership, parenting and personal growth. My hope is to deliver the best content I can to inspire, to inform and to entertain. Sign up for my blog if you want to receive the latest and best … More Being Brave Enough to Heal
Love can be terrifying. Sometimes, it may feel easier to avoid love, yet you cannot fully recover without it. ___ Love can be amazing, inspiring It can be a weapon or a drug It can become a backlash or The reason for a whole new beginning Love in recovery is, well, difficult. You need to … More Are You Brave Enough to Love Yourself?
Is male intimacy limited to the bro-hug and “how you doin?” Whatever it is, it scares the crap out of us. ___ Men talk about sports, work, and beer, but talking about feelings is not what they want, right? ◊♦◊ He shocked me. I’ve known him for over twenty years, and Gord (not his name) is not the type to talk about … More Intimacy and the Myth of the Self Made Man
Never be afraid when your love changes, because changing love is healthy love. ___ Writing about love is hard for me, damned hard. I mostly stumble around the topic and make a mess of things. It’s not that I don’t need love. I need my family and my close friends to love me, I just find it difficult … More The Six Loves that Create Lasting Love
Getting High on Recovery 