Why is Having Love All Figured Out a Dangerous Thing?

In believing that you are lovable… you become “Love-Able.” ___ Becoming too good at love can be dangerous. Love is meant to be messy because you are wonderfully broken, completely incomplete. Don’t get me wrong, you can know love and understand it. You can become a better lover and better at loving yourself. But the … More Why is Having Love All Figured Out a Dangerous Thing?

Intimacy and the Myth of the Self Made Man

Is male intimacy limited to the bro-hug and “how you doin?” Whatever it is, it scares the crap out of us. ___ Men talk about sports, work, and beer, but talking about feelings is not what they want, right? ◊♦◊ He shocked me. I’ve known him for over twenty years, and Gord (not his name) is not the type to talk about … More Intimacy and the Myth of the Self Made Man