Relationships are a collision of worlds. When love chooses you, it is beautifully chaotic. ____ If you are not married and are in a committed relationship, I hope what I write will connect with you. At the core, a marriage is a relationship of two people held together by love, good intentions and a lot … More Love Your Imperfect Marriage and it will Love You Back
Wanted: A Man of Steel. Please send photos of your abs and your tools. ___ Someone I know is looking for the perfect man. She sent me this ad. Any takers? Wanted: A Man of Steel. Must match the following criteria: 1. Has a manly name like Napoleon, Weber, Holland or Grill Master 2. Does not … More To Find a Perfect Man, Look No Further than Your BBQ
Sean Swaby interviews his 15 year old son about the experiences that make you a man. ____ Turning 18 is a piece of cake, becoming a man is a piece of history. As a father, I often wonder if I am doing enough to prepare my son for manhood. So I asked him and he agreed … More What Makes a Man? An Interview with My 15 Year Old Son
Losing an uncle made me think about where we would be without our uncles? ____ Earlier this year my uncle Brian passed away. His death seemed to tap into an ocean of emotions for me. I cried harder than I did at my own father’s funeral. In the last 20 years we really were not … More The Men from U.N.C.L.E.s
I am a personal Ghoster and here is my story. ___ I love my family, I enjoy my relationships and I receive a great deal of satisfaction from my life. But sometimes, I just need to disappear. Juggling the demands of life can wear at you. Life can be like sandpaper, constantly scratching your edges. This is stimulating … More Nine Ways that Ghosting can Improve Your Relationships
Sean Swaby admits that he isn’t always happy. His confession may result in a flurry of people telling him to smile, recommendations for antidepressants or offers of food to make him feel better. ___ Go ahead, you don’t have to smile. It’s okay if you are not happy all of the time. Just know that … More Men and the Resting A**hole Face: Smiley Face Not Required
I have a friend who loves to talk about his Junk and if you ask nicely, he’ll even show it to you. ___ Some people can turn their Junk into art. Not me. My Junk always ends up in piles next to my bed. I have a friend named Don who makes a living by driving … More Choose Yourself Lessons from a Junk Artist
Sean Swaby admits that his wife wonders if he is deaf. Men aren’t deaf, we are just trying to stay on top of the weather patterns inside of us. ___ Let’s be honest, most men have a hard time communicating. But to be fair, most women also have their share of communication mishaps. So why is it that … More The Seven Myths of Male Communication
Your boss may have more impact on your health than your doctor. We spend more time at work than we do in most of our relationships: Maybe we should date our Bosses before working for them? ___ Okay, reverse that one. Think about it this way: Why is it that we can take years to … More Your Boss or Your Life?
Shoes can be profound. I found my purpose in a pair of shoes. ___ Your shoe is where your sole meets your soul. The shoe is where we get some of our greatest motivational insights: Walk your talk Where the rubber hits the road Walk a mile in another man’s shoes. The shoes make the man… or … More Your Portable Man-Cave
Getting High on Recovery 